My Girlfriend slept with another person repeatedly, I need help

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I'm in a state of total devastation and I know that I'll never get as low as this any more in my life. This is one pathetic story of a lesson well learnt.
I got into University at 20yrs and after a couple of weeks I started a relationship with a 16 yearr old girl. We were everything to each other and gave it our all.
We had our 1st sex abt 3months l8r and as she said, I was her 1st even tho she had had a couple of intimate experiences none had led to sex b4 then and that made me want to spend the rest of my life making sure no one else did. I must say that I started to Love her completely and genuinely after our 1st lovemaking.
Now, months went by and things happened in our relationship that make us fight, argue and quarrel on a daily basis and on flimsy excuses or reasons. We were barely compatible but we wanted to make it work so we always made up and continued the struggle.

Dad's Rules For Dating His Daughter- Femi Kuti

Lol..I think Femi kuti needs not to speak much..He said it all in a customized t-shirt that explains the 10 laws a man must know before he marries any of his daughters.

The 10 laws below :

1) Get A Job
2) Understand I don't Like You
3) I’M Everywhere
4) You Hurt Her, I Hurt You
5) Be Home 30 Minutes Early
6) Get A Lawyer
7) If You Lie to Me, I will Find Out
8) She is my Princess, Not your Conquest
9) I don't Mind Going Back to Jail
10) Whatever You do to Her, I will do to you

Tough but soo simple Rules...

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Please Help: My girlfriend smokes & drinks too much, should I let her go?

A special reader has the problem has desided to seek for help from you. Please read and comment your suggestions;

Dear readers. I've been dating this lady for the last nine months and I need advise as things are beginning to get out of hand. I am ready to settle down but I don't know if I should make this woman my wife or let her go. I am madly in love with her but she's not what I want in a woman. I don't know how I managed to fall in love with her in the first place. She drinks too much, she smokes too much, she even smokes weed, though she tries to hide it but I've caught her a few times. She gets drunk at least once every other week. She's domesticated and is a good cook and sex with her is of course very great, but whenever she drinks I see a different woman. She's also very foul mouthed and can be very aggressive, especially when she's high from smoking. Whenever she's sober, we have a great time and I start to look at her as the mother of my kids but then she gets drunk again and I see a totally different person. I don't smoke or drink and I have even threatened to end the relationship if she doesn't stop drinking but that hasn't made a difference. Should I propose to her or let her go? Will she ever change? Is there anything I can do to make her a different woman?

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How to detect good and bad eggs without cracking open

I landed on a Food blog, and this is what caught my attention. Ever wondered how you could detect rotten eggs without cracking open the eggs? Here is a technique she uses when baking especially when she has got to use left over eggs from weeks before. This is to avoid cracking open rotten eggs into a batch of good eggs. Works like magic too... Who is she? - Guys meet my new friend :) - Dobby

Directions:
#Step 1: fill a bowl with cold water
#Step 2: gently add the eggs you are unsure of into the water
#Step 3: Watch for a few minutes, the ones that float are the rotten eggs while the ones that sink are the good eggs.

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Meet the married couples who never have sex - saying they're happy

 When married this couples live like brother and sister. No sex for years and they insist they are happy. Are they deluded - or just honest? Read and tell us what you think...

Most evenings, with their little girl safely tucked up in bed, Charlotte and Chris Everiss (pictured right) enjoy a kiss and a cuddle on the sofa in front of the television.
Happily married for a decade, the couple cannot bear to even imagine their lives without one another. Yet, astonishingly, they haven’t made love for more than two years.
Both insist that their marriage, which followed a two-year courtship after meeting on a dating website, is stronger than most. It’s just that sex, they say, is not important to their happiness.

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[MUST READ] My bestfriend's husband wants to kill her

Here is an email from a special reader, (Identity disclosed)

I'm in a situation which involves life or death. My best friend who is from a very wealthy background got married last week, to a cool dude she has been dating for over a year. They weren't supposed to get married but she got pregnant and he surprised her by proposing. I have been so envious of their love and even though he isn't as rich as she is, he spoils her with gifts when he can.

On Saturday which was the wedding,  during  the reception which held at her dad's hotel,  I rushed to the restroom to ease myself but it was all occupied, so I ran to the back, where there was a dark corner and bent to pee. I was about to stand when I heard footsteps,so I was scared of being caught urinating outside and hid behind a car.  Then I heard giggles, it looked like a man and woman making out. I then raised my head to see who they were when I saw my beloved best-friend's husband and a lady he had. Introduced to her on many occasions as a colleague

Social Issues: Can You Suddenly Stop Loving Someone?

From a speacial male reader, he need your help -

When I say suddenly, I mean out of nowhere, just like that, without any reason or explanations everything you've ever felt is gone. I was madly in love with this girl for a year and nine months. In fact I was planning to propose to her on our second year anniversary when all of a sudden I woke up and all my feelings for her was gone. She didn't do or say anything wrong. Nothing about her changed. Nothing about me changed. We didn't even have an argument. One minute we were talking about going on a vacation together and the next minute I stop picking her calls and started avoiding her. It's been four months now since my feelings for her changed and I still can't make sense of it. She wants answers, she wants to know what she did wrong, why I all of a sudden ended things with her. She thinks I met someone else but I didn't. I just stopped loving her and didn't want her anymore. What happened to me? How can I find my way back to her?

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10 Tips To Be Successful As A Youth [Read]

1. Do not depend on your parents' wealth. Someone may come tomorrow to dupe you and you will lose everything. Learn to do things on your own.

2. God has given everyone a talent. Pray about yours, discover it, and work on it. Then it will work out for you.

3. Do not just sit down and ping, tweet, facebook while others are making money with their talents. Be wise for once, the owners of these social networks are using us to make money

4. It is good to appreciate good things, but learn to appreciate it wisely and stop arguing unnecessarily about football and players. When will people argue about you also? Think about it!

5. Don't feel like a Don for sleeping with too many ladies, they won't make your destiny fulfilled as some are filled with bad luck.

6. Learn to get a lady/husband close to you to be successful as they say: without a woman, a man cannot be successful.

7. Learn to solve problem on your own, it is a good way of making it in life. Don't copy others, tap little from them and modify it.

8.Stop drinking and smoking too much as it may damage your life too much. Do it socially.

9. Learn to have a good heart, help people around you if you have the power as they'll use their heart to bless you.

10. Think about impossible things, try to make it possible. Bigger people started from somewhere... Kindness costs nothing..
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Question Of The Day! What would you do if...

Imagine you find yourself next to your ex in
church and the pastor says turn to your neighbour and say 'i love you'.
What would You say or Do?
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Lets Get Talking: Male Pastor Marrying Male Pastor - #ENDTIME

 

 All in the name of gay this' gay that', Now a man of God is married to his fellow man, Why? ok his a gay!

But my point is, Here is a Man Of God, a person who knows deep about the scripture, a person who lead people in God's way, is it okay to be hocking up with other men, and doing it openly?

It's written in the last sentence  - Rev. Jones-Wade (pictured left above) is married to First Gentleman, Job Jones-Wade, they reside in the DC area.

 The guy on the right is an openly gay Nigerian pastor Rowland Jide Macaulay. What do you guys think of Men of God marrying men?

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Dear Readers: I can't stand my wife anymore; should I stay or go?

From one of our male readers;

"I found out my wife of 11 years cheated on me with some guy. This was last year June. She confessed to me after I confronted her with the facts. I decided to forgive her and stay married to her because I have cheated on her in the past too and I didn't want to destroy our family because we have four small children together. The thing now is; I don't love her anymore. I can't stand her and can't even bare to touch her. When she talks to me I get so angry I feel like stabbing her in the eye but I've never laid hands on her. I don't talk to her much except when we want to talk about the kids. We live in the same house but as strangers. She's really tried to make it up but it's not working. I actually hate it when she's around me, and haven't touched her since I found out about the cheating
I thought my anger and disgust at her would fade with time but it's been 9 months and I still feel this way. Will this anger ever go away or should I just end things with her?"

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